re-enchantment of the world and queer decolonial feminist movement-building through collective experiences of physical touch and care, mostly held in Brighton & Hove, UK.
our altar space for the pleasure garden “How To Find Oneself in a Queer Cuddle Puddle” at the Ledward Centre, Brighton, UK.
“This is important politically - it breaks down barriers between people - which is the first step to building a collaborative culture, not a hierarchical one.”
“This was a genuinely impactful and well-organised project that could benefit so many people if it becomes a regular event! It emphasises the importance of community and makes attendees feel seen, accepted and worthy.”
“attending ‘touch friends wow’ was an eye opening, heart opening, transformational event that allowed me to get in touch with many facets of myself whilst exploring platonic intimacy, whilst having my entire nervous system regulated and awakened in the process. In the current world of busy schedules and capitalism, allowing ourselves to feel pleasure and joy can sometimes take a backseat. Events like this allow personal transformations in this area to take place, which can then positively impact confidence, self assured navigation of the world, self belief, connection, belonging and many other areas that positively impact a persons quality of life.”
“This event was so beautiful! All elements had been well thought out, and Vi and Em were very vigilant at creating a space where everyone felt safe and comfortable.”
“both events [How To Find Oneself in a Queer Cuddle Puddle? & touch-friends wow!! woww!!!] had incredible positive effects on my mental health. i had been very very socially isolated due to mental health issues, still am to an extent, and these spaces with their excellent facilitation presented a safe way to get close to other people again that is so valuable i don't know if i can put it into words. i took these experiences with me to therapy where they have been very instructive, i really couldn't overstate the effects it's had on my life and in such a short period of time as well”
“If i have a stronger “no”, it is more comfortable for others”